The 5 five love languages are quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation, acts of service and receiving gifts. Last week we explained how Physical Touch could be the answer to your relationship issues. Today, it’s all about receiving gifts.
For people who speak this love language, gifts are physical symbols of love that show how much you love them. This act materially expresses the affection you have for them. This love language is often misconstrued because it’s usually seen as the person is being greedy or the person is much more in love with the gifts than the person giving them the gifts.
The thing is, whatever you buy doesn’t have to be expensive and they don’t have to be all the time. The value of the gift lies in the whole gift-giving process, from inception to delivery and beyond. You don’t give them anything just because their love language is receiving gifts because it’s not just about the gift; it’s about the element of surprise, the thrill of unwrapping, and the thought behind the token of affection. The right present makes this person feel seen, understood or appreciated.
On the occasion of their birthdays, you need to make the biggest deal since that one is more personal.
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