You’re a cool guy; everyone says so. You are friends with a lot of ladies but for some reason, you can’t seem to get a girlfriend. A number of guys find themselves in this situation and if you’re one of them, you’ve coke to the right place.
1. You don’t shoot your shot
Most of the time, you’re just really nice to the ladies but you don’t really make your move to them. Go out and mingle and try to get the numbers from girls. In Ghana, the ladies will not move to you. If you don’t make the first move, you’ll not get a girlfriend.
2. Poor grooming
Looks play a HUGE factor in the decision making process of ladies. If you don’t dress well, they won’t even look at you twice and immediately you try talking to them, they’ll find a way out of the conversation because they don’t want to be seen with you.
3. Poor Hygiene
Nobody wants to be with someone who doesn’t do even the barest minimum when it comes to their health. Don’t underestimate the power of a good haircut and properly fitted clothes. Plus, good hygiene leaves you smelling wonderful and inviting.
4. You reek of desperation
No lady wants to be associated with someone who reeks of desperation. When you’re desperate, you tend to have no standards because you’ll date any and everyone just because you want to have a girlfriend. It’s not attractive.
5. You’re too intense too soon
You’re already talking about “love” when you only started talking to the person an hour ago. That’s too much. There’s always a process. Maybe you are already in love but you don’t say it just yet. Let the relationship blossom to the point where you’re sure she feels the same way.
Take a moment and really access your life; take account of your strengths and weaknesses. Improve on your weaknesses, and shoot more shots. After all, the worst that can happen is she saying no.
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