4 Tips For The Partner With The Higher Libido

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Just so we are on the same page, women also have higher libidos sand so we are speaking for both males and females.

Misaligned sex drives is a part of some relationships and it can result in a breakup but it doesn’t always have to be like this. You the one with the higher libido have some responsibilities to do in order to help your situation. Here are 4 tips to help you out.

1. Talk about it with your partner

Communication is extremely important in a relationship and if you feel uneasy because of your sex drive trouble, you should let them know. They may or may not have noticed but drawing their attention to it is a first step. You need to speak well so that it doesn’t come off as “you don’t satisfy me” but rather “I usually want more but you’re mostly tired, what do you think we can do to make both of us happy?”

2. Don’t take it personally

It will sting knowing that sometimes when you want to have sex, your partner isn’t interested but you don’t have to take it personally. You need to understand that you’re on 2 different wavelengths and for that part of the relationship to work, you both need to compromise. Your partner’s lower libido doesn’t say anything about you, or their attraction to you. 

3. Explore

Now that you both know what is going on, explore your options. If A doesn’t want sex anymore but B wants more, A just has to play a supportive role by kissing and touching as B does their own pleasuring. Also, the introduction of sex toys also helps reduce the pressure on A as they just have to use the toys on B. There’s also the option of mutually masturbating or just drawing out the foreplay by kissing, massaging or showering together.

4. Engage in self pleasure

And you don’t have to hide it. Engaging in self pleasure as your partner watches can be intense and can increase their desire for sex (sometimes). Don’t try to hide it, or rush through it, or do it from a place of anger (if you do feel a bit of sexual rejection). If you’re always doing it in secret, it just becomes something that puts even more distance between the two of you.

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