Most people especially, ladies, leave the initiation of sex to the guy. Maybe it’s the way society speaks ill about women who are confident about their sexualities but I really think if you want to have sex with someone you really like, go tell the person. Why wait for the person to initiate it? If you want different ways to initiate sex without feeling awkward, keep reading.
1. Be Assertive
Just grab him and tell him what you want to do to him or what you want him to do to you. Most people tend to think that because their partners don’t initiate sex, they probably don’t like having sex with them which in your case may not be true. Being assertive about what you want shows him that it’s actually the opposite. It also gives him a clear guide on the stuff you like.
Texting him about what he should expect when he comes home or even sending him raunchy photos of you will leave a handful of your job to his imagination. By the time he sees you, you wouldn’t even have to talk about it. It’s straight to action.
3. Give him a massage
You don’t need to be an expert. Just knead and squeeze random parts of his body and you’ll get them to relax beneath you. Set the mood with candles and music, use massage oils and treat the massage like a foreplay. Take your time; give each part, erogenous or not equal attention. Before your massage session is over, you would have had sex… maybe even twice.
4. Take your kissing… downtown
And no, I don’t mean reduce the intensity. Kiss as passionately as you want and then send your lips down south. While kissing him, reach down and touch his inner thigh and work your way around that part of his body and then give him the head of his life😌
Do try any of these tips and let us know how it goes.
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