Dating An Older Man Is Sometimes The Best Thing Ever. Here’s Why.

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I think age shouldn’t be a barrier for love. Once you really like the person and they have the qualities you want in a life partner, I think you should go for it.

Dating older guys in Ghana isn’t really a new thing. In fact, it’s actually encouraged because apparently, women age faster than men and so even when both of you are old, the man still looks older than you and not the other way round. Here are a couple of reasons why I think it’s a great idea to date a man who’s a little older than you.

1. He’s mature

He’s had time to dip in the pool of love and dating. He knows what he wants. He’s straight to the point. If it’s you he wants, he’ll pursue you. They’re usually not complicated.

2. He’s financially secure

It’s not as if you need money but having someone at your side who has his finances together feels good. They can give you advice on how to handle your money so you’re not running at a loss or going broke every month even though you’re working. You also know that if you need money, they’ll be there to help you out.

3. Your relationship is more stable

These people are past the fooling around time. They’re looking for people to settle down with. They’re in it for the long run; dating people like this usually ends up in marriage after about a year.

4. He has a career

To have a job means occupation and income, but to have a career means having responsibility and ambition. A healthy amount of drive and passion for what you do is something often acquired over time, and unless he’s a workaholic, it can be a source of inspiration and attraction.

5. He has more life experience

Think about it. Even your older friends give you advice on what to do at various points in your life, how much more someone you’re dating? They’ll give you insight on what to do when you reach points in your career, money issues, family issues, friendship problems, you name it.

While I’ve said all these things, remember that not every older guy will be like this. Some of them still have a lot of growing up to do. You just have to look for the right fit for you.

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