Excitement usually stems from experiencing the unknown. If you’ve been with someone for years or months, chances are, there really isn’t anything new anymore. You know their schedule. You know how they do their things. If your relationship has become monotonous, here are a few ways to spice things up a bit.
1. Take the TV out of the bedroom
The bedroom is where you both rewind and catch up with each other’s lives. Watching TV can hinder this experience and fuel your growing apart.
2. Recreate a memorable date
The whole preparation for this recreation alone is enough to spark excitement in the relationship. Both of you should be involved so that it won’t be a one sided thing.
3. Encourage your partner’s hobbies
Remember, you don’t need to spend every waking moment with your partner. Encourage each other to pursue your own hobbies. It will give you a chance to miss each other and gather new stories to tell each other once you meet up.
4. Flirt with each other
Flirting is fun and keeps things exciting between you. It reminds you of the reason why you both got together in the first place. It might feel silly, but it can help put a spark back in your relationship.
5. Try something new in bed
If the boredom extends to the bedroom, you need to start doing things differently in there. If it’s the addition of a different position or incorporating sex toys into the room. If you want unconventional methods like bringing an extra person into your bedroom too, discuss with your partner and do it. In all of this, remember consent. If your partner isn’t okay with it, don’t go ahead to do it.
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