The difference between people that everyone wants to be around and people that others dread being around, is how they behave. It’s more than just being positive. To be truly irresistible to the people around you, there are some qualities that you can adopt. And these qualities will make people constantly want to be around you.
Being Able To Laugh At Yourself
The easiest people to be around are people who don’t take themselves too seriously. So, these are people who can take a joke. If you take yourself too seriously, you hold yourself to high standards in everything. And that sort of bookishness can be difficult to be around. People won’t be afraid to tell a joke around you when you’re comfortable enough with who you are that you can laugh at yourself.
Not Forcing Conversations To Impress People
There are some people who just start bragging unprovoked. And it can be a turn off for the people on the receiving end of all that braggadocio. Yes, you have 5 cars, but who asked though? When you try too hard to impress people, the feeling that they get is of your insecurity. Conversations are more fluid and balanced when you are genuinely interested in the other person too.
Having Strong Boundaries
In a time where people can feel entitled to parts of you, it is important to have healthy boundaries. You should never give up on who you are, on your standards or passions—as long as it doesn’t interfere with respecting others.
Having Your Emotions Under Control
People who have control over their emotions also tend to be attractive to other people. It allows people not to feel like they have to walk on eggshells around you in order to keep you from just throwing a fit. It can be hard to keep calm in triggering situations, but you’ll appreciate the outcome more when you handle things from a calm place.