3. Very spontaneous
Yes, spontaneity with the right person is encouraged as it keeps the relationship fresh and exciting but this is different. They call you out of the blue at the oddest times and expect you to drop everything you’re doing just to hang out with them. Sometimes, they even abruptly cancel the plans in the middle of you preparing for them. They don’t like you. You’re an option to them and when they feel like they have a better option, they leave you behind.