I don’t know who wrote the laws of attraction, but when it’s not there, it’s just not there. However, sometimes it can be difficult to tell that your feelings for someone are unrequited. And that’s because, people might still enjoy your company and want you as a friend even if they aren’t romantically interested in you. So, here are all the signs that someone just wants you as a friend.
When A Guy Treats You Like One Of The Bros
A guy calling you “bro” doesn’t mean that he’s not attracted to you. The word has become a term of endearment in some circles. However, if he treats you exactly as he does his guy friends, it means he’s not interested in you. That’s when there’s no subtle flirting, no advances of any sort, making jokes every other second and just an absence of affectionate behaviour.
When They’re Always Busy
If someone is into you, it comes pretty naturally to make time for you. And when a person is just not into you, you hear that they’re “busy” a lot. They become evasive when you try to make plans with them, and sometimes even holding a conversation over text is difficult.
They Talk About Their Ex All The Time
It does take a certain level of connection for someone to open up to you about their previous relationships. However, if their ex is all they ever talk to you about, then you’re definitely more of a friend than a romantic interest to them.
They Talk About People That They’re Interested In
This is probably the clearest sign that someone isn’t into you. When they keep checking out other people or talk to you about people that they’re interested in, then it means that they don’s see you in that same way. If someone is into you, they’re not thinking about other people when they’re with you. A lack of focus on you = A lack of interest in you.