7. Use A Memory
If you’re talking with someone that you are familiar with, a great way to get the conversation started is to use a memory. Bring up a time that you were together and it’s bound to get things heated up.
8. Use A Fantasy
Sharing sexual fantasies that you have with anyone can be a disarming experience. However, it can also be a chance to deepen a connection that you share with someone; and get you more comfortable with each other.
9. Don’t Get Distracted, It Kills The Mood
Finally, leaving—even for minutes at a time—when you’re sexting with someone can be a turn off for the person. People are also stimulated by interest. If they sense that you’re not, they will lose interest as well.