I Was Getting Under Somebody To Get Over Someone – My Celibacy Story

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My decision to be celibate stemmed from me feeling like I had no purpose in my sexual life. Getting sex was not difficult; I didn’t have a problem relating to people and getting sex. It just got to a point where I felt like, what was the point of all the sex? I have been celibate for 5 months now.

Obviously having sex with multiple people is quite risky but that wasn’t why I wanted to be celibate. I just felt like what was the point in getting attached to people sexually and parting ways afterwards? There wasn’t any purpose for me anymore. It also felt like I was trying to fill a void with sex.

Then again, I had just come out from a bad relationship and I feel like I was getting under somebody to get over somebody and I realised that it wasn’t working and that’s where I got the idea to be celibate came from.

I face a number of difficulties with my decision though because you don’t go from enjoying sex to not doing it ever. I failed a week or 2 into my decision but I convinced myself that it was just one step back, I had to still keep going and it has worked for me.

I now redirect my energy into work since I have a lot to do there. Anytime I have an urge I either go out to play basketball or just go straight to work. It keeps my mind off it.

It’s really difficult because I have some silly friends that still send sexy pictures of girls just to laugh at me because they know I am celibate but I know it’s just one of those things. Lol.

The one thing that helped me was letting it be known that I am celibate cuz when people don’t know, they act and approach you like everything is okay. If they want me they’ll probably send a seductive picture of themselves and tell me to come over or something. Now that I’ve told them I’m celibate they’ve taken it seriously and now even when I have the urge and start acting funny, they alert me and ask if I’m not the one who said I was celibate. It really helps to tell people.

The Kuulpeeps Relationship Series is a weekly series that explores different aspects of sex life through the eyes of our anonymous contributors. For the next few weeks we are focusing on Celibacy. If you want to share your story with us kindly fill this anonymous form.

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