Should you or should you not give them a second chance? It’s everyone’s fantasy to have the partner who broke their heart crawl back to them on their knees begging for forgiveness and asking to be back in your lives.
As much as it’s easy to say no, especially when there’s abuse in the picture, in other scenarios, it’s not so easy to decide on whether or not to give the ex a second chance but before you make your decision, here are 4 points to consider.
1. Why did you break up in the first place?
There are certain breakup situations and reasons that could be overlooked for example, you had a fight about something dumb that you don’t even remember and both of you were too egotistic to apologize to each other. But there are some that are really important and if you both can’t move past it, it will cause problems in the future. For example, if you one person doesn’t want kids while the other does or if one person is emotionally or even physically abusive. Once you know the arguments can’t be resolved it’s better to face your front and move on with life. Let the ex go.