First things first, if you’re the only one who wants to revive the relationship, then these tips wouldn’t help you. You both need to see the urgency of the situation and want to put everything aside and then work to revive the relationship.
Secondly, don’t blame each other for the fact that it feels like your relationship is dying. Routines are normal in our everyday lives and it’s quite understandable if your relationship has fallen into a routine basis. What is important is that you’re both ready to bring back the spark that was once there.
Check these pointers out.
- Do things together
Obviously, during the day, you probably have different jobs so you are separate for a number of hours but when you get back home, try to do the little things together. If you do not live together, you need this point even more. When you see each other on weekends, try to do things together. You can cook together, wash dishes together or even watch a favourite show together. Doing these things will bring you closer and you tend to talk about random things as well and you catch up with each other’s lives.