Say hello to everyone’s worst nightmare and for some reason a favourite tactic for men in modern dating: ghosting.
I’m sure most—if not all—of you out there have experienced it at some point, and are now feeling your blood begin to boil at the memory, but for those who are unfamiliar with the term, let me clarify.
“Ghosting” is when instead of being straight forward and simply texting something like “Hey I don’t think this is going to work out” or “Sorry but I’m not interested” or basically texting anything… He just disappears. No more likes on IG, no more Snapchats, no more texts—just the haunting reminder of their presence through their contact in your phone or name in your followers.
If none of this sounds familiar, you’re one of the lucky ones.
So, too often, these ghosts come back to haunt you. Sometimes it’s through some infrequent likes, but other times more directly – through a text or message.
Ladies and gentlemen too… you don’t need a ghost in your life. If they didn’t have the time for you then, they are not going to have time for you now. Do NOT let him linger in the land of the living that is YOUR brilliant, radiant, action-filled life! Here are some cutthroat, little bit petty, and well-deserved responses to your ghost.