Question #4: Do the two of you still have good sex?
If you’re thinking of opening your relationship in order to fix your sex life, think again. Opening your relationship in order to cure an unhappy sex life makes about as much sense as having a baby to fix an unhappy marriage. It’s much more likely to complicate the situation than to improve it. It’s tempting to think that giving each other license to get sex elsewhere might breathe new life into your relationship. Sure, you might enjoy a temporary sense of adventure. But remember, you’re adding other people to the mix. If you don’t have a solid foundation as a couple, that’s asking for trouble.