We are growing and we are responsible for the people we allow into our spaces and energies.
Certain guys should not be entertained at all because all they bring is bad energy and bad vibes.
See, once they show signs or go ahead and abuse you, leave them!! Ei! You cannot come and die for your parents oo! Where you’ve reached you cannot be around someone who will abuse you either emotionally, physically, verbally or even financially! Run sis!!
For some reason, they always have a problem with their ATM’s or they’ve left their wallet at home. They invite you out but you pay for everything in the end. Why are you still entertaining them, sis? You think they’ll change? Hah! See, it’s fine if you pay for stuff sometimes when y’all go out but see, if they are the ones you invite you and this is your payback, Run!!
It’s fine if, in the beginning, you didn’t know that that’s how they truly are because they are usually charming and engaging. Their true personalities come out later. They belittle women every time without even trying. They unknowingly treat women differently from men in every social setting allowing men various liberties for which he will criticize female colleagues or friends.
The Immature one
They are just big kids and never seem to grow up. As charming as they seem at first, dating someone immature can be frustrating. All he wants to do is have fun, which is great but when you settle down and move in together, he’ll never want to talk about “boring” things like finances, rent and chores.
The Lazy one
He doesn’t have a job currently but for some reason, he’s almost always at his friend’s place playing video games. If you ask him about his CV he says he’ll do them. If you ask about going for job interviews he’ll give excuses like he doesn’t have the time or no one has reached out but you know deep within your heart that he hasn’t sent any job applications out. Sis, that is a trap you should not fall for at all!!
Sis, this is a public service announcement and you know deep within your heart that if you go as far as having such guys as your boyfriend it will be bad for you. Which other guy did we leave out?