We know it hurts to endure a breakup especially when you want to be together and the reason why y’all have broken up is something both of you can work with… it’s not like one of the deal-breakers you have. You don’t need to take the “desperate times call for desperate measures” approach because it will cause you to do really crappy things like drunk dialling the guy. *cringggee*
Keep reading to know how to get your guy/girl back with dignity and pride.
Take responsibility for the part you played
In every break up there’s a role both of you have played and you need to acknowledge yours. It shows you’re ready to put things aside and move forward. Stop blaming them, look within and determine how you contributed to the demise of your relationship.
DO NOT BEG THEM!!
Do you see how it’s in caps? Yes, we are shouting!! Don’t beg your exes to take you back especially if the ex is a guy. Begging just pushes your ex even further away. Men are usually attracted to women who are strong, happy and independent. Just live your life and let him wish he was still with you.
Love yourself enough
Yes, y’all broke up but it doesn’t mean it’s the end of your life. You need to take this time to take good care of yourself. When you do this, it adds up to your looks and everything; even your confidence level.
Now when you guys start to talk about everything, you need to stand up for yourself. Don’t let him convince you that the problem was yours. Even if the problem started with you, the way he responded or didn’t respond made things worse. and you need to state it.
Know what you want in the relationship
You need to know what and what you’re not tolerating again in the relationship and what you want this time. After this, behave and act in ways that support your vision and make you feel good about yourself. Let things unfold naturally and stay open to the outcome.
Remember, even if they say they don’t want to get back together with you, you don’t need to let go of yourself. You need to take care of yourself as well and someone else will come your way.
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