Are you satisfied with your sex life? It’s sad to hear that people aren’t having great sex or aren’t experiencing enough full-bodied pleasure in the act. We deserve to have regular orgasms. Although many of us are still learning, debating, and practicing (the best part), the act of sex, what is essential is understanding that WE ARE ALL capable of experiencing orgasm in a variety of ways.
Giving and receiving pleasure should be 50/50. Whatever 50/50 looks like to you in any given sexual encounter or experience, that’s up to you and your partner to negotiate before, during, and after.
Seriously friends, your body is capable of enjoying some of the most intense, satisfying, and healing energy-producing forces you can ever imagine.
THE G-SPOT SIMULATION
Some experts say this small, spongy area above the front vaginal wall is a myth.
It doesn’t really matter if you believe it or not — what matters is this: Applying pressure to this mysterious area in bae’s body feels fantastic and you must go for it. How to accomplish this great feat? Use a circular “come hither” motion and with applied pressure massage the area slowly. Don’t be afraid to get your hands a little wet and increase orgasmic potential by gently kissing her labia at the same time. Young fellow, you’d sure love to see your woman explode with pleasure so get to business and DM me your experience. I’m not joking okayyy?
THE NIPPLE/BREAST ORGASM
Researchers discovered that stimulation of the nipple activates an area of the brain. What this means is that women’s brains seem to process nipple and genital stimulation in the same way. So, having a breast/nipple orgasm is possible! Sometimes, it’s easy to forget that our brains are actually the biggest sex organ that we have and their influence on how we experience pleasure on the whole is huge.
This type of orgasm requires some time commitment. Slow lip syncing, tongue rolling, and teasing are all part of building up your arousal and should, in my opinion, be a part of foreplay all the time. Achieving an orgasm this way requires deep focus, but it can happen.
Yes, your butt. For many women, anal sex feels fantastic. If you want to try it, use a healthy dose of lube and slowly work your way in and around the anal area, while preparing for penetration. Use the LUBE oo. Anal penetration should initially be a slow process, especially if you’re new to the sensation. I know most of you probably think it’s gross, but it can produce immense pleasure
The urethra. Yes, the pee hole. Surprised? When your U-spot is stimulated, the erectile tissue surrounding the opening engorges with blood, thus triggering the Skene’s Glands to produce prostatic fluid (the stuff of squirting) and you become aroused. Personally, I think it ‘paps’ so try it.
This is your inner vaginal zone. Look for it at the front vaginal wall, up towards your belly-button area. Some say it’s a great pressure point because it can be considered as an indirect stimulation of the G-Spot — much like the U-Spot and clitoral hood are indirect stimulation spots for the clitoris itself. This zone is best explored when you’re quite aroused and your muscles are super-relaxed.
THE ZONE ORGASM
Zone orgasms are ones that are experienced via stimulation of an area that isn’t necessarily thought of as erotic. These are orgasms that are brought on by stimulation of that “special sweet spot”. Zone pleasure is great to explore on your own or with a partner, to see what moves you.
This actually “bursts my brain”. Fantasy/mental orgasms happen because of stimulation of your biggest sex organ: your brain.
Have you ever woken up from a sex dream where you experienced one of the best orgasms you’ve had in a while? Have you ever fantasized so hard about that babe on the subway that when you get to your office you needed to excuse yourself and spend a couple of minutes alone in the restroom? These are the orgasms that, after some training, can be experienced just with your thoughts. No touching.
How to have them? Enticing your body to have multiple orgasms will definitely require some down time for self-exploration. Some of us are hard-wired to have difficulty experiencing even one orgasm, let alone multiple. If this is you, know that you are not alone. Using a variety of techniques, stimulants, or fantasies is what can bring you to more easily achieve the multi-magic. If multiple orgasms are your goal, then once you’ve reached your first orgasm, take a second, regroup, breathe, and then try to have another.