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How To Deal With Sex That Sucks

Sex should be great. Sex can be great. But sometimes it sucks balls. Not because your partner is completely hopeless (that happens sometimes) but because there is just not enough communication or experimentation. Here are a few ways to turn around sex that sucks.

 

1. Give Each Other Ideas
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Get your juices flowing by telling him some of your biggest fantasies. Guiding him in the right direction will definitely help you to feel greater pleasure and he will be grateful that you trusted him enough to open up like that. He will also love that you have chosen him to be part of your deepest fantasies. Guys, you should do same too, tell her what you’ll love to see her in (the thongzz and tinzz, yunno), what’ll turn you on and that shouldn’t be difficult. At all.

 

2. The Tour Guide Approach
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You can sort of guide each other to the right actions by verbally encouraging him when he starts to touch you the way you like. Some people get turned on by their partners reactions, moans and all that. Its really necessary you express how you feel . The more you tell him you like “that”, the more he will do it- and if he doesn’t, make him. You need to, well unless he’s tired.

SEE ALSO: Foreplay: What Actually Happens

3. Try Different Positions
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If you tend to stick to the boring old styles and position, you might not be getting great sex. I’m not saying get the Karma Sutra out, but it can be fun and invigorating to try a few different positions every now and then to spice it up a little bit. Sometimes you can even come up with your own ideas. You never know, you might discover a position that HITS THE SPOT BETTER THAN ANY OTHER and voila! You can look for some “inspirational tips” that’ll help your game go pro…bro

 

4. Take Control
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So if what he’s doing isn’t doing it for you?  It is time to mix things up and take control in whichever way will bring you the pleasure. Do something that pleases him as much it pleases you. Hopefully, he will be perceptive and pick up on what makes you hot and bothered and he can learn for the future, what parts of sex are your favorites and what parts to skip entirely. Also its  good for you to take turns in control because : Sexual Equality For All.

 

5. Don’t Fake It
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No matter how sorry you feel for your partner, you should never fake it. All the fake “ooh’s” and “aahs” must stop today, seriously. Faking it gives your partner the impression that he was on top of his game. Imagine him always doing the same things he did the night you faked moans and an orgasm because he thinks that’s what does it for you? You need to let your self express exactly what you feel. Guys are always listening for clues to which spots work best.

 

There you have it. We all have the right to good sex. Work your way up to that point and date happily ever after!

 

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