The honeymoon stage of every relationship is always amazing! So amazing that we foolishly fail to see the red flags when they’re proudly being waved in our faces.
“Head over heels in love” indeed. If you’re thinking big picture, here are some of the signs that show your relationship will not last.
You feel like you can’t be yourself
Ei… if you can’t be yourself around friends saf we ask that you let them go, how much more boyfriend/girlfriend? We know that generally, at the beginning of the relationship, both of you are sort of trying to impress each other so you would probably be walking on eggshells around each other but this shouldn’t go on for more than 6 months. If you’re hiding a part of you for any reason from your partner, it might not work out.
Those interspersed fights are normal but if you guys are always on each other’s necks then there’s a big problem!
Your opinion isn’t valued
In your relationship, there should be mutual respect. If your partner makes everything you say seem dumb, my dear, that’s a problem. If they value their opinion above yours, that’s unacceptable and is definitely a red flag since it will soon be a reason for a quarrel soon.
How they treat others
At the beginning of a relationship, he’ll definitely be all nice to you so it’s important to observe how he/she treats other people; from a waiter to their friends, to even family members. Chances are when the honeymoon phase is over, that’s how he/she is going to treat you.
They compare you to their ex
It goes without saying that if any partner of yours, at any point, compares you to their ex, run! Cuz they will eventually go back to their ex. If they keep talking about their ex, they’re probably still hung on them.
If you notice any of these red flags early, you can dump this person and find someone else who is worthy of you.
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