See er, no one understands you like a best friend. Not your mom, not your sibling, not your spouse.
There are certain things that you cannot tell your mum (unless you plan on dying cuz she will definitely kill you) or even your boyfriend (he obviously cannot know about how you used to be pro “heaux is life”) and that is where your bestie comes along.
This person is your personal and official hype man or woman. They keep pushing you to be the best version of yourself. Oh… and they sometimes make you cry with their bluntness when saying the truth (they obviously know when to tell you a white lie though). There is no judgement when you tell them anything. They totally get you even though sometimes you don’t even get yourself.
1. You don’t need to go anywhere alone
One of the greatest perks of having a bestie is having a designated date to every event. If you’re going somewhere new, having someone else by your side can ease a lot of anxiety. Remember that your bestie is sometimes your hero, too.
2. No matter how much trouble you’re in, she’ll always help you get out of it.
First of all, sometimes it’s their fault that you’re in that situation since they advised you. They usually feel responsible so that’s understandable.
3. You Can Be Real With
You can show your true self without the fear of getting judged. You don’t have to hide your flaws or weaknesses from them because they never judge and always help you towards becoming a better person.
4. You always have a shoulder to cry on
When you feel so low and feel like the world should open up and suck you in, they’re there for you. They’re always there for you in trying times even if it means making you laugh, letting you cry, or finding a solution, your bestie will be there to guide you.
5. Your personal photographer
Since you go everywhere together, you automatically have a personal photographer. If you and bae are being all lovey-dovey, your bestie is always there taking those cute pictures worthy of going on Social Media. All you need to do is to strike a pose and be ready to slay in the picture.
6. She’s your protector
Whether you’re being pursued by someone who’s a little too pushy or you just don’t want to deal with being hit on for example, in a club, your BFF will step in and take matters into their own hands, as you would do for her. You really do love each other, and you’ll always protect each other at all costs.
7. You make crazy plans together
Lol. You can sit down and plan everything down to what you’ll wear. Be it a last-minute night out plan or any adventure sport, they are ever ready to try them with you.
Best friends are like diamonds and you should always treasure yours with some tender loving care.