Lancaster: Whatever You Do, Don’t Ignore These Relationship Red Flags


The state of being connected to someone is termed as a Relationship.

Belief, motivation, inspiration, strength are what sums up a relationship.

It means living stronger and as a team.

Whilst most of us yearn for successful relationships, here are 5 red flags you shouldn’t ignore in a relationship.


1.  Their sex drive is much higher or lower than yours.

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There’s no wrong amount of sex to have or not have in life, but it is important that you and your partner have a similar libido. And what do we mean by that? One partner is constantly initiating sex and the other isn’t in the mood very often then there goes the world of crushed egos, hurt feelings, emotional pressure, and resentment from both sides. There should be some level of understanding as to when to have sex and when not to.

2.  They rush in with proposals forward and too quickly.

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These kinds of people are either on the rebound, practising a particularly toxic version of serial monogamy. Either way, NOPE NOPE NOPE don’t give in. Know your standards don’t jump into any loose skirt or tight trousers you sight.


3.  They demand your phone and social media password.

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Like isn’t that invading one’s privacy? N to the O, to the No No No. Having peace without someone mouth- breathing over your shoulder is practically some sort of basic right. I mean yeah! You are 100% entitled to autonomy and privacy. You can’t come and kill yourself.


4. They describe their ex’s as non-compos mentis.

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Non-compos mentis is a Latin way of saying  crazy. Uncle nice boy (sigh) who have you hurt? And who is dying of shame because you hurt them? Some relationships ended so badly that we’re still sour at an ex. We know, we get it. But if your new partner spews nasty comments at any and all of their “crazy” former lovers every chance they get, it’s a good clue that they were and are the problem. So stay woke!


5.  They’re secretive about little things.

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That’s so not cool at all. Imagine how they would handle the big things lmao. For starters, why would they want to date someone they don’t trust? And what does that say about whatever untrusty worthy habits or temptations they might be projecting onto you?

In Stonebwoy’s voice “stay woke”


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