These 5 Points Will Definitely Help You Understand Why You Aren’t Reaching Orgasm Yet!

For some ladies, reaching orgasm is very easy but for others, climaxing and reaching orgasm isn’t so easy. You see, there’s a significant mental component to reaching an orgasm.

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Usually, there are mental obstacles or blocks that can prevent you from fully relaxing and letting go, which makes having an orgasm tough, and sometimes impossible. Overcoming these problems will make reaching orgasm much, much easier. These are the mental obstacles we are referring to.

  1. Stress
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Obviously, when you’re stressed it’s hard to concentrate on doing something and doing it well. It’s going to be difficult to get aroused and feel sexual when feeling stressed about work, your kids or any other major problem.

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Stress is natural and we can hardly avoid it. However, if every day of your life is incredibly stressful, you probably need to take a step back, reassess and find some time to meditate or exercise or to simply have some “me time” so you can destress.

2. Anxious about cumming

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See, if you’re obsessing about whether or not you will come, you would definitely not come and that’s an assurance love. You can end up becoming so anxious and worried about whether you are using the right technique to orgasm that you stop focusing on what feels pleasurable and enjoyable.

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Even though this sounds counter-intuitive, you need to stop focusing on having an orgasm every time you have sex. Instead, you need to focus on what feels most pleasurable. Learn to experiment with different techniques and positions to find out what you enjoy the most. As you do, you’ll notice that you naturally get closer and closer to orgasming.

3. Feeling some sort of pressure for some reason

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People feel so self conscious when having sex for some odd reason. Lol, yes odd. This is somebody you’ve decided to sleep with and now you’re conscious of making sounds because you think he would think less of you. Giiirrlll…the faster you wake up the better for you.

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If legit legit you feel like your man will judge you, the best thing to do is to talk to him cuz trust us, guys have their own share of insecurities too! They’re worried about their dick size, whether they would be able to perform for long, trying not to cum too early, making sure you have a good time, whether or not you like their body and more. Lol… so you see, you aren’t the only one who is probably feeling somewhat pressured. Just talk things out so you take the pressure off.

4. Confidence in Your Body

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Once you’re self-conscious about how your body looks, it will be hard to enjoy what’s happening to you. They really go hand in hand.

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Advising you on how to become more comfortable with your body is difficult, but know that once you begin to accept yourself for who you are, you will find yourself becoming less self-conscious and notice that it becomes easier to reach orgasm.

5. Sexual Shame

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If you’ve had a negative sexual experience in the past or have a problem with having sex before marriage because of your religion, then you may be dealing with some sexual shame. This sexual shame can act like a weight on your mind preventing you from fully letting go and orgasming.

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You have to notice it and then consciously tell yourself that the feeling you are having (the sexual shame) is something that should be ignored. However, sometimes sexual shame runs a lot deeper, and you’ll need to talk to a licensed counselor or therapist to help you get rid of it.

If you’re able to get these out of the way, we can almost guarantee a very explosive orgasm!

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