For some ladies, initiating sex can be very awkward. This is usually because ladies are subconsciously taught to submit to men in general and this reflects in the bedroom. Ladies are usually expected to behave when it comes to sex and if you aren’t like that, it is assumed that you’ve really slept around or you watch a lot of porn and that’s why you know what you know.
Now sis, what do you do if you’re the one who’s horny and not your partner? What do you do then? Wait till he knows through telepathy? You have to be able to initiate the whole thing sis! It definitely spices up the relationship.
Here are different angles you can take when you want to initiate sex with the boo.
1. Get a little touchy feely
Yup. Rub on him, put your hands on his chest, kiss his neck, run fingers through his hair. Do the things that make him feel like you can’t keep your hands off of him, and feel free to pull his clothes off while you do it. Trust us! This works!
2. Be the dominant
Grab your guy and tell him what you want. Tell him to get on his knees, climb on top, or strip naked in the kitchen. Not only does this give him a clear guide of what to do, it gives you exactly what you have a hankering for. You’ll likely get more of what you want when you initiate. You set the mood, choose the location, and set the pace.
3. Text Him
Send your guy a text when you know he’s wrapping up for the day to give him a taste of what’s to come. You can do it with words (“Come find me when you get home. I’ll be in the bedroom…;)”) or via a sexy close-up pic, like one of your lacy bra peeking out of your low-cut top. Not that your man would share, of course, but leave your face out of it, just to be safe.
4. Take your kissing downtown
You can start with an innocent kiss and gradually as it becomes hotter let your hands go wild. Brush your fingers against his inner thighs. Don’t forget to be gentle, it’s waaayy hotter this way than just grabbing the D. And finally let your mouth do all your talking on that D.
5. Let him beg for it
Kiss andyour way down his torso, stopping short of his penis, then stop. Go make yourself a sandwich or something. He will go crazy with lust and want but he can deal with it.
6. Temperature Changes
An easy one to start with is the classic ice-cube trick. Have him lie on his back, hold a cube in your hand, and slowly draw an icy line from his neck all the way down his body.
We really hope these help you in your relationships! Do let us know how it went.