Dear Fresher, When You Get To College, Please Don’t Be THAT Freshman

As we are all counting down the days to return to campus, students are looking forward to meeting new people and reuniting with old friends. And then, there is the freshman.

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We have all been there. The eagerness and excitement have been slowly building up through months of summer vacation, all waiting for this moment. We understand the anxiousness, enthusiasm, and insecurities. The opportunity to meet new people and explore a new area is very intriguing. But let’s be real, you are here to make memories and get an education. So here are a few pieces of advice from a former

University fresher

Don’t be that freshman who follows their significant other to college

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This is the boy or girl who simply cannot think for themselves. The 17-year-old puts their own personal goals and interests aside to sacrifice for a six-month relationship. This will more than likely end at an end of semester transfer after the relationship has been tested for a month or two in university life. So if you want to really enjoy your first year, make your own decisions and do what is best for you.

Don’t be that freshman who lets their parents pick their major

“You are not going to school just to waste my money.”

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This is a statement you might have heard from your parents. As true as it might seem, this is definitely not a good way to start your college years. If you are not majoring in something you can see yourself doing, you are wasting your time. You can study biology, go to medical school, and make the best grades. But if deep down you don’t want to be a doctor, you will NOT end up being a good doctor. When it comes to picking your courses, you really have to follow your heart.

Don’t be that freshman who gets overwhelmed with the first taste of freedom

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Yes. It is all very exciting. You don’t have a curfew, you don’t have rules, and you don’t have anyone constantly nagging you, but let’s not get carried away. Don’t be the freshman who gets a tattoo on the first night of living on your own. Don’t be the freshman who tries to drink every liquor behind the bar. Don’t be the freshman who gets caught up being someone that they aren’t. Best advice would be to take things slow.

Don’t be that freshman who starts school isolated in a relationship

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We are not telling you not to date anyone during your first year. We are saying to not cut yourself off from the rest of the world while you date someone. Your first year on campus is such an amazing opportunity to meet people, but people are constantly eager to start dating someone and then only spend time with that person.

Be the fresher who can manage time between friends and relationships.

Don’t be that freshman who can’t handle things on their own

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It is your first year on your own. Yes, you still need help from your parents. But at this point, they should not be ordering your textbooks or be buying your lunch. If you need something for a club or for class, YOU should handle it. If you’re having roommate problems, YOU should handle it, not your parents. This is the real world and uni is a great time for you to start building up to be the person you want to be in the future, but you can’t successfully do that if your parents still deal with every minor inconvenience for you.

Don’t be that freshman who only talks to their high school friends

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We know your high school was probably amazing, and you probably had the coolest people go there. However, I believe that uni is a great time to be on your own and experience new things. Meeting new people and going to new places will allow you to grow into a more mature person. There is a way to balance meeting new friends and maintaining friendships with childhood friends, and we believe you will find that balance.

 

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